• Why you do it

    No news is good news pt. 2

    In this post, Dr Money Mustache also talks about how to avoid wasting time. And it’s not just news, it’s ‘all forms of irrelevant information’. The philosopher Seneca said in On the Shortness of Life, ‘There is no time for anything inessential,’ but does this mean you can’t even watch 6 episodes of Friends back-to-back, or watch highlights of pretty boring…

  • Why you do it

    It’s who you know and also what they know

    Surrounding yourself with the right people makes you better. I’ve had a fair few positive role models since I left high school. And not just positive role models, but pretty inspirational people. My brother, people I met traveling, people I stayed with or lived with and a few randoms outside of those confines. Jim Rohn said you’re the average of the 5…

  • I don't get it - Why you do it

    Compromise

    I always thought that compromise in a relationship means both people not getting what they want. I’ve also heard people say they don’t think that’s right though – that it’s about both people getting what they want. But that doesn’t really ring true for me either. This does though. A friend of mine, who has got his shit together, and whose opinion…

  • Why you do it

    Captain Hindsight is nothing but a dumb asshole.

    I don’t know about you, but when I make a decision that I later think was wrong, I sometimes get pissed off and think, ‘God damn I can be a dumbass sometimes.’ But most of the time, when you make a decision that later you wish had been different, it wasn’t actually a ‘wrong’ decision. It was a decision that was…

  • I don't get it - Why you do it

    Use it or lose it

    I spent the end of 2015 Helpxing on a couple farms in Ontario, Canada. Both places weren’t too far outside Ottawa, and the first was on a property owned by a guy called Damita. Damita had previously only worked in IT and had 0 experience in carpentry. But he read book after book, watched videos on Youtube, and then he just,…

  • Why you do it - Why you read it

    I don’t feel good about this

    Today I finished David Deutsch’s incredible book, The Beginning of Infinity, and went straight on to the next one I’ve got that I’ve been hanging to get stuck into, Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott. I’ve heard different people say it’s the book about how to be a good writer. The problem is I shouldn’t have it. It’s a library rental, and it’s overdue. Damn.…

  • I don't get it - Why you do it

    It’s just water

    I live in a place where people are pretty active. Whenever the sun’s out, there’s people out running around, walking their dogs, talking and chatting, fishing, everything. But when it rains, everything’s different. On the streets and on the beach, it’s a ghost town. I can’t speak for everyone, but as soon as the weather is ‘bad’, and it rains, people…

  • I don't get it - Why you do it

    What is Israeli Chutzpah?

    Are Israeli people pushy? Kind of (at 2:07). But there’s a reason. Israelis don’t wait for things to happen. They make them happen. That’s why there’s so many great ideas and such great innovation that’s come out of there, the Startup Nation (Israel has the most tech startups per capita of any country in the world.) So, sometimes what comes…

  • Daily routines - Why you do it - Why you do it (daily)

    Why I Do It

    “The more of the details of our daily life we can hand over to the effortless custody of automatism, the more our higher powers of mind will be set free for their own proper work. There is no more miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual but indecision, and for whom the lighting of every cigar, the…