When people mention you when you’re not around, what do you hope they say about you?
When they say ‘(your name) is…’, how do you hope they finish that sentence? What are the things about you that you hope they say? What are the characteristics that are the things you most want to be?
Live that way. However you want to be seen, do it. Live that way.
Sidenote: And how much does your true self and false self intersect?