Category: Writing

That goal or thing or milestone… do you want it, or do you WANT TO WANT it?That goal or thing or milestone… do you want it, or do you WANT TO WANT it?

Last week, I had this conversation with one of English students, who needs to rapidly improve his English to pass an upcoming exam: Student: ‘My brother is an English teacher

Why news sucks and sports don’tWhy news sucks and sports don’t

I always turn to the sports pages first, which records people’s accomplishments. The front page has nothing but man’s failures – Earl Warren When you read, listen to or watch

Missing the Point #2: Win the morning, Win the Day? So if you lose the morning, thennnnnnn…..? Then what?Missing the Point #2: Win the morning, Win the Day? So if you lose the morning, thennnnnnn…..? Then what?

You might’ve heard this thing before: Win the Morning, win the day. You’d agree that losing is the opposite of winning right? And winning’s the opposite of losing? So doesn’t that

When something gets to you, be like Kobe (or at least try to)When something gets to you, be like Kobe (or at least try to)

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When force of circumstance upsets your equanimity, lose no time in recovering your self-control and do not remain out of tune longer than you can help. Habitual recurrence to the

Change your life now!!! Yeah, and if you don’t want to?Change your life now!!! Yeah, and if you don’t want to?

Everything changes, but ‘Change’ and especially voluntary change, is not always good (Also, climate change. Not that good.) So when self-help gurus tell you ‘You can change your life!’¹… What

Actually actuallyActually actually

If you searched this site for any word, I would’ve thought that you’d get the most hits for ‘Seneca‘ or ‘Bill & Ted‘ or ‘Snufkin‘, but if you search the word

When shit sucks, embrace it.When shit sucks, embrace it.

When you go through something tough, don’t deflect, deny or numb (with alcohol, drugs, distractions etc.) the feelings of how much it sucks. Embrace the shockwaves within you and that

Are you smashing it out or Taking it in?Are you smashing it out or Taking it in?

‘If thou wouldst know contentment, let thy deeds be few’, said the sage. – Marcus Aurelius, from Meditations Yesterday, my mate Matt wrote about taking your time, not wasting it.

Matt on Time: Take your time. Don’t waste your time.Matt on Time: Take your time. Don’t waste your time.

How many times have you heard or been told to take your time? How often have you made yourself feel rushed to complete a task you then haven’t completed fully

On Challenging YourselfOn Challenging Yourself

If someone responds to the question, ‘Why do you want to do that?’ with: ‘To challenge myself’, what does that actually mean? One of my mentors a student to task over

The three questions that changed my life and could change yoursThe three questions that changed my life and could change yours

Understanding yourself, life and what truly matters isn’t about getting answers –it’s about asking questions. And knowing exactly which ones to ask yourself. One of my mentors introduced me to

You’ve got this ‘Now’, your past ‘Now’s and your future ones. Which one are you present in?You’ve got this ‘Now’, your past ‘Now’s and your future ones. Which one are you present in?

Life’s just a series of ‘Now’s. A bunch of consecutive moments where the only place you are actually present is the current one right now. Yet so many of us

There’s no formula to get people to do what you expect, but there is one for handling what they doThere’s no formula to get people to do what you expect, but there is one for handling what they do

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Humans have been communicating with each other for between 50,000 and 2 million years (who knows, really?). And still we haven’t worked out a perfect formula for people meeting all

The Philosophy of: Jeff BuckleyThe Philosophy of: Jeff Buckley

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The wealthiest person is a pauper at times, Compared to the man with a satisfied mind. (from Satisfied Mind) This is not the most well-known cover that Jeff Buckley recorded, but one thing

Everything is temporary (even The Sun). It’s just some things are a bit more temporary-er than others.Everything is temporary (even The Sun). It’s just some things are a bit more temporary-er than others.

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You know that hugeass, hotass, bright thing in the sky… It’s 4.6 billion years old. But in just over another 4.6 billion years it’s going to collapse in on itself,

‘It’s less about the outcome, more about the path’. In other words: Fuck the result.‘It’s less about the outcome, more about the path’. In other words: Fuck the result.

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*Sidenote: Contrary to how it looks recently, this is NOT a Spanish site. So back to old, boring ass English I guess. (From the 2016 Spanish movie, Embarazados)¹ Say you want to say

NO, ACTUALLY… yo no sé nada en inglés, sé menos que nada en español y ESCUCHO NADA en ambos idiomaNO, ACTUALLY… yo no sé nada en inglés, sé menos que nada en español y ESCUCHO NADA en ambos idioma

Take #3. Yesterday, homeboy Esteban from Colombia ripped apart and patched back up my first-ever attempt at writing Spanish. And I did pay attention, but I still went ahead and