Category: Why you do it

A tourist in your own townA tourist in your own town

A lot of things we don’t realize are completely in our control (much like a lot of what we get worked up over is totally out of our control.) And

The two worst words in the English languageThe two worst words in the English language

The words ‘I’m’ and ‘bored’, when put together in that exact order, make up my most hated expression in the English language. (Sidenote: This is what it translates to, in case you’re wondering.)

Me vs. Seth GodinMe vs. Seth Godin

Seth Godin writes these pint-sized and punchy posts every day on his blog. Each post is a meaningful and useful new perspective on something we do or how we see things,

Why You Do It – Jonathan ZaidmanWhy You Do It – Jonathan Zaidman

One of the first things I thought after meeting Jonathan is that everything he says or does matters. He and his housemates let me couchsurf at their place in San Diego, California

Silence the SirensSilence the Sirens

One of the advantages of not using social media is you get to make up your own mind. I’m easily influenced, and my opinion’s are swayed by others, and if

Look upLook up

Even if you’re in Times Square in New York City, on Oxford St in London or Flinders St in Melbourne, you’re never far away from nature; you’re never disconnected. Just

Play like a kidPlay like a kid

When you’re a kid, you couldn’t give a shit about dying or consequences. Without realising it, everything you do is: 1) For fun and, 2) ‘Just ’cause’ (or as us

There’s a ‘why’ behind everythingThere’s a ‘why’ behind everything

One of my former students asked me last week whether I believe everything we do –big or small– we do for a reason. Even things like flicking from channel to channel

Go FirstGo First

There’s this idea that Gabby Reece talked about on The Truth Barrel. And she lives by it too… Go First. It applies to so many things. Walking past someone in the street,

What if there was a social network for people who hate social networks?What if there was a social network for people who hate social networks?

Imagine there was a social media and social network site for people who hate it. You would open up your laptop, with a big smile on your face, and click

Today is ‘One day…’Today is ‘One day…’

Ages ago, there was this guy who went fishing everyday in what I think was a tiny village in Greece. Effortlessly he caught fish after fish. He did it for

Why you do it – Matt GrattidgeWhy you do it – Matt Grattidge

Matt’s one of my favourite people. Whether he meant it or not, he’s taught me how to be better at my relationship, at friendships and at life. He’s also taught

These rappers from Sydney and their tribute to a guy called YogiThese rappers from Sydney and their tribute to a guy called Yogi

Just under 2 months ago, a guy died on the set of a music video in Brisbane. The way it was reported though, coincidentally or not, linked the band whose

Excuse number forty eight million and sixty threeExcuse number forty eight million and sixty three

‘My memory is so bad’. You might’ve heard that. Is that a legitimate reason to not remember things? Or is it an excuse? What did people do before photos? Just blank

White lies & ComplainingWhite lies & Complaining

How much do these two things affect who we are and the lives we live? When you get something challenging to do, instead of thinking, ‘Damn this is hard…’, is

Bad writers are pussiesBad writers are pussies

Every writer who’s afraid to be honest, holds back or tries to sound smarter or wiser than they actually are is shit. The author of Bird by Bird, Anne Lamott, has

If you’re not going to get shot, do it.If you’re not going to get shot, do it.

This guy I know –Micky’s his name– was a Sergeant in the army. And when making a decision, let’s say in a highly-dangerous situation in combat, he says the worst

Another awesome fucking person who helped meAnother awesome fucking person who helped me

VICE does good work. And it’s cool too. But I’ve never thought the trendiness or coolness, whatever that is, is what defines it. It’s the investigative journalism and trying to

Murdering Murphy’s LawMurdering Murphy’s Law

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I’ve written before about what a load of goatshit Murphy’s Law is. As a theory it’s about as accurate as ‘A watched toaster never pops’ or ‘Don’t look a dragon

When it rains, it just rainsWhen it rains, it just rains

When you work in a bar and it gets quiet, they send some bartenders home. ‘We don’t need you – knock off.’ So then what happens? It gets busy of course. And